The sextile of Lilith and Selena gives the opportunity to consciously connect knowledge of one's own shadow with an inner moral reference point. Lilith shows zones of temptation, shame, repressed desire, envy, fear, and distorted behavior. Selena gives a bright resource, protection, the ability to choose more cleanly, and support where a person acts from truth, not from pride or compensation.
In the sextile this connection can become very useful. The native is able to see their ambiguous motives without hysteria or self-destruction. They can admit: yes, there is envy, a desire for control, fear, vanity, resentment in me, but I do not have to act from it. Such calm recognition makes the aspect strong. The person does not hide the shadow, but translates it into conscious choice.
